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What is their final message to you?
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Marjorie Muro was raised in Evansille Indiana. Upon graduation from high school, she moved to Southern California where the seeds for her first book Ladies of the Canyon were planted. She completed a Masters progam in Political Science and worked for the Los Angeles Police Department as a Personnel Analyst for 15 years and as the Los Angeles Special Events Coordinator for the Mayor and City Council for three years. Marjorie has two grown children, a son and
daughter, and lives with her feisty little black pomeranian, Tessie, in
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"A lovely, lively book" -- Betsy Amster, Betsy Amster Literary Enterprises |
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"We met at the Phoenix Women's Expo a week ago.I LOVED your book and I am going to make it required reading for my Women Studies class. Wouldn't it be wonderful if all women could have the support group Louise had?!!! This is one of the best stories about sisterhood I have ever read." Cindy Holmes-Bacon | |||
"A wonderful story - it's part Steel Magnolias and part First Wives' Club. It's just a lovely story to read." Gail Ross, Gail Ross Literary Agency | |||
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"Marjorie Muro has done a real service to contemporary history--and provided a treat for readers--with her memoir Ladies of the Canyon. Strong and wise as a sage, the story brings to life the canyon residents who made a living doing everything from working with stained glass to designing rides for Disney. "Generous in spirit, Muro has retrieved and
preserved a segment of the '60's/'70's Los Angeles that might otherwise
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...first a perusal of the chapter titles
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WEDDING BELLS |
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Teresa and Wade have grown up together here in the canyon, along with every member of the wedding party. My friends and I are happy that there is still magic in the world, that boys and girls still grow up to fall in love and want to get married and have babies. Having us "ladies of the canyon" as their mothers, it's a wonder they haven't just decided to stay single forever. Maybe we haven't done such a bad job after all. This is unbelievable. After what she has seen us go through, Teresa just charges right ahead and does exactly the same thing. Every one of us is praying that she will not have to struggle the way we have. Her persistence is a tribute to the salmon that swim upstream. She's done it. She's getting married. Everyone is absolutely in awe of both of Teresa and Wade. It was easy to decorate for the celebration. We simply placed the tables with white cloths and pink-rose centerpieces around Marissa's vine-covered trellis, voila! We have a garden wedding. Our sons set up a small platform for the band and a karaoke machine. Add good food, good wine, and lots of canyon folks and we had a party that could go for days. The handsome guy in the back doing the barbecuing, Steve, has spent more time helping our sons grow up than any of their fathers have. He's the one who taught them to fish and ride bicycles and motorcycles. He took them camping and helped them find jobs and learn carpentry in the summers. There was a time when I thought Steve might be the one for my children and me to make a home with, but he has too many scars from his past to get too close to one person. He's much happier alone or in groups but he was certainly a blessing to our sons. This is only one of hundreds of weddings Marissa has performed, but Teresa and Wade are canyon children. Her son Randy, my son Russell and Sasha's son Dallas will be part of the ceremony and of course, all the big sisters are here. The kids are in their late twenties now and so gorgeous. There are eight of them, four boys and four girls. They are closer than if they had actually been blood relatives. We brought them into the canyon when they were little children and we were all single mothers from separate places, searching for a home. Looking around, almost all I see is mothers. The only person with a father present is the groom. Everyone was wondering if he was going to bring a date, and he was gracious enough not to. But the truth is, no one would have cared if he had. Wade's mother is standing next to him, her ex but yet not ex-husband. Of all the canyon ladies, I know her least. She prefers to remain at home quietly alone. She doesn't drive and many times I have given her a ride to the bus stop so that she can go to work doing what? I'm not sure. I do however, know her son Wade and her daughter Gena quite well. After the brief ceremony, Teresa sings with Wade "I Got You Babe." Cute. One of them is very talented and it sure as heck isn't Wade. He's a lot better with a hammer than a microphone but he's a good sport. Thank goodness, here comes Katy to rescue us. She steps up onto the platform, shakes loose her long red hair and picks up her guitar. She's the mother of the bride but she has changed into her usual ensemble of a tee shirt, cut- off jeans and cowboy boots. The effect is such that one of the male guests leaps up on his table and has to be subdued by the men sitting near him. "For the few who don't know her, I want to introduce my mom, Katy. We're dedicating this song to each other," says Teresa, smiling at Katy. Katy smiles back. There is a polite quiet period followed by the pure, sweet harmony of mother and daughter, accompanied by acoustic guitar, singing, "I'm Everything I Am Because You Love Me." This is followed by a lot of sniffling, smiling, and applause. Great. Now they're playing my theme song, "Men bought Louise ten-cent trinkets, but they cried when she died, Louise." No matter how hard I have worked to improve my situation in life, I wind up with nothing but ten-cent trinkets and a broken heart. Well, it seems that's what happens when a woman puts all her efforts into a relationship with a man - at least the men that have been in and out of my life. Good. Here comes my baby Russell, "Hi Mom. This is Elizabeth. She's here with some of Randy's friends from Santa Barbara. This is my mom, Louise. Want to dance, Mom?" (Forget what I just said about ten-cent trinkets.) Russell and I walk onto the grassy area designated for dancing. We stand near the edge and start to do a little shuffle. Mine's a subdued "mashed potatoes," and he's watching me to see if I know what to do with the hip-hop music that's beginning to play. I don't, right away. Then that old feeling comes slowly back. I smile at Russell, he smiles at me, and we break out into those wild free-form, rhythmic movements that take over your body and respond to the music. It's been a few years, but I haven't lost it yet. Russell laughs as Elizabeth runs out to join us. By ones, twos and threes, everyone is up and moving until the garden is filled with jumping, shouting, whistling, clapping dancers and the canyon is, once again, filled with music. I love these people. They are the only family I have known for the past twenty years. I bet just like I am, the other women are remembering their own wedding days. We all have at least one to recall. The ones we seem to talk about the most are the ones that landed us in the canyon, alone, with children to raise.
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